Twitter girl (Cally) in the music pub (John), saw work people first time after a long while
Alistair: mental image where, let's say BJ meets someone new for the first time. What if she didn't pretend, but instead, was her self? Well, then, maybe there would be some darkness flickering, but for the most part it's light. So what if we had a forever therapist, so that when those flickers of darkness happen, they can be boxed off and ~let out~ [observed? ] with a professional trauma wrangler who can train you to see that box? So that you can co-exist with your un-tempered lightness and, comparatively little, boxed off darkness. Letti g that dark go doesn't mean she wins. But being able to feel means you win.